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📘 Why does regret feel different from disappointment?

At 7 p.m., at the window table, you taste a bland meal. That disappoints. Seeing a better plate next door can add regret.

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What you’ll learn

  1. Two Kinds of ComparisonDistinguish regret's unchosen-action comparison from disappointment's expectation comparison.Both feelings mark a gap, but they use different reference points.
  2. Agency and the StingConnect perceived agency, feedback, and hindsight to regret's intensity.A better unchosen outcome can make a loss feel personally tied to a revisable choice.
  3. What the Feelings Can DoUse the distinction to interpret brain findings and choose a useful next step.Regret can motivate repair; disappointment can update expectations; one event can contain both.

Questions this course answers

What comparison is central to regret?

Regret involves a better alternative linked to a different action.

Why can the same result feel more like regret for one person?

Perceived agency changes which comparison feels relevant.

How can separating regret from disappointment help?

The distinction points toward either recalibrating a prediction or identifying a specific repair.

Grounded in trusted sources

  • Chua, H. F., Gonzalez, R., Taylor, S. F., Welsh, R. C., & Liberzon, I. Decision-related loss: regret and disappointment. NeuroImage (2009). https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19524050/
  • van Dijk, W. W., & Zeelenberg, M. Investigating the appraisal patterns of regret and disappointment. Motivation and Emotion (2002). https://research.vu.nl/ws/portalfiles/portal/1883998/Dijk%20Motivation%20and%20Emotion%2026%284%29%202002%20u.pdf
  • Martinez, L. M., Zeelenberg, M., & Rijsman, J. B. Regret and other emotions related to decision-making: antecedents, appraisals, and phenomenological aspects. Frontiers in Psychology (2021). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8718115/
  • Roese, N. J., & Epstude, K. Decision-making dysfunctions of counterfactuals in depression: Who might I have been? Journal of Experimental Social Psychology (2013). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3820979/
  • American Psychological Association. Counterfactual thinking. APA Dictionary of Psychology. https://dictionary.apa.org/counterfactual-thinking
  • Cheng, S. K. et al. The impact of disappointment in decision making: inter-individual differences and electrical neuroimaging. PLoS ONE (2010). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3020567/
  • Wikimedia Commons API and individual file records for credited media. https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/api.php

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