SUPPER. Usually a buffet supper, being more easily handled and arranged for. Supper at tables requires many servants, much preparation, and great care.
WOMEN AT. A mother should attend balls with her daughters, going and returning with them, and if she is not invited, they should decline the invitation. The father can act as escort if need be.
After greeting the hostess and guests, the guests pay their respects to the head of the house if he is present.
Taking leave of the hostess is unnecessary.
It is no longer customary for a couple to enter arm in arm, but for the woman to precede the man. A mother, elder sister, or married woman takes the precedence over a daughter, younger sister, or unmarried woman.
If not at once asked to dance, a young woman should take a seat by her chaperone. It is bad taste to refuse a dance with one man and then to dance that same dance with another.
Both the hostess and the women wear their most elaborate costume for such an entertainment- decollete, short-sleeved, and a long train.
For a less elaborate affair the costume may be plainer.
BALLS, ASSEMBLY. See ASSEMBLY BALLS.
BALLS, COSTUME. See COSTUME BALLS.
BALLS, DEBUT. See DEBUT BALLS.
BALLS, PUBLIC. See PUBLIC BALLS.
BALLS, SUBSCRIPTION. See SUBSCRIPTION BALLS.
BANANAS. The skin should be cut off with a knife, peeling from the top down, while holding in the hand. Small pieces should be cut or broken off, and taken in the fingers, or they may be cut up and eaten with a fork.
BARON-HOW ADDRESSED. An official letter begins: My Lord, and ends: I have the honor to be your Lordship's obedient servant.
The address on the envelope is: To the Right Honorable the Baron Wilson.
A social letter begins: Dear Lord Wilson, and ends: Believe me, my dear Lord Wilson, very sincerely yours.
The address is: To the Lord Wilson.
DAUGHTER OF. See DAUGHTER OF BARON.
WIFE OF YOUNGER SON OF. See WIFE OF YOUNGER SON OF BARON.
BARON, YOUNGER SON OF--How Addressed. An official letter begins: Sir, and ends: I have the honor to remain your obedient servant.
A social letter begins: Dear Mr. Wilson, and ends: Believe me, dear Mr. Wilson, sincerely yours.
The address on the envelope is: To the Honorable John Wilson.
BARONESS-HOW ADDRESSED, An official letter begins: Madam, and ends: I have the honor to remain your Ladyship's most obedient servant.
The address on the envelope is: To the Right Honorable The Baroness Kent.
A social letter begins: Dear Lady Kent, and ends. Believe me dear Lady Kent, sincerely yours.
The address is: To the Lady Kent.
BARONET-HOW ADDRESSED. An official letter begins: Sir, and ends: I have the honor to remain, sir, your obedient servant.
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