Part 69

A man may not wive, and also thrive all in the same year.

Better be half hanged than ill wed.

He that marries for wealth sells his liberty.

He that marries late, marries ill.

He that is needy when he is married shall be rich when he is buried.

Better have an old man to humor than a young rake to break your heart.

Marry your sons when they will; your daughters when you can.

Marry your daughters betimes, lest they marry themselves.

Two heads are better than one, or why do folks marry?

FOLKLORE AND SUPERSTITIONS OF THE MONTHS

JANUARY

This month is so called in honor of the god Janus, who is always depicted with two faces or heads, one to look forwards, the other backwards. His work was to preside over the beginning of any new thing and, ever since his time, people have invoked his aid and sympathy when they have been setting out on some new enterprise. On New Year's Day, the Romans gave presents to one another, much as we do at Christmas, but accompanying the gifts was usually a small copper token showing the double head of Janus. To possess one of these tokens ensured prosperity when commencing some new work, and it was supposed to carry enterprises already started, but not yet finished, to a successful conclusion. The accompanying illustration gives a reproduction of one of the tokens used.

NEW YEAR SUPERSTITIONS.--Endless are the superstitions which have gathered around the dawn of the New Year, which, although neither a Christian nor a Church festival, afford sober reflection to many. In several districts, the custom known as "first-footing" is still common. People wait until the old year has been rung out and then they call on their friends to wish them a happy new year. They must not go empty-handed, however, or this will provide a lean year for the friends. A cake will ensure abundance, a red herring stands for luck, and the gift of even the smallest coin is a certain portent that a lucky financial year is opening.

While anyone is free to pay these visits, it is much the happiest omen if the caller be a man, a dark-haired man, and if he takes with him a lump of coal and a fish. Any fish serves the purpose--even a tin of sardines. Let a man, answering these requisites, be the first to cross the threshold of your door, after the old year has gone, and there is no better way of entering on the new year.

Another custom, which has many supporters, is to tidy up the house, to build up the fires and to open wide the front door, just when the old year is departing. The open door allows the exhausted year to make its exit completely. It is then supposed to take with it anything savoring of ill-fortune. The tidy house welcomes the new year in a spirit of brightness and gladness.

For a clock to stop just as the new year is coming in, or to be found to have stopped then, is an ill omen. Therefore, householders have long been careful to give an eye to their timepieces some little while before.

Weather-lore regarding the new year is plentiful. Here is a well-known rhyme:

If on New Year's night wind blow south, It betokeneth warmth and growth: If west, much milk and fish in the sea: If north, much cold and snow there will be: If east, the trees will bear much fruit: If north-east, flee it, man and brute.

January has been described as follows:

The blackest month in all the year Is the month of Janiveer. In Janiveer, if the sun appear, March and April will pay full dear. If January calends be summerly gay, It will be winterly weather till the calends of May.

(The calends, it may be explained, were the first days of the months.)

ST. PAUL'S DAY (January 25th)

If St. Paul's Day be faire and cleare, It doth betide a happy year: But if by chance it then should rain, It will make deare all kinds of graine:

And if ye clouds make dark ye sky, Then meate and fowles this year shall die: If blustering winds do blow aloft, Then wars shall trouble ye realm full oft.

FEBRUARY

February derives its name from Februare--to expiate, to purify. In this connection, it is interesting to note that on the 2nd of the month falls Candlemas Day, which is the purification of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

CANDLEMAS DAY (February 2nd)

(a) If Candlemas Day be fair and bright, Winter will have another flight: But if Candlemas Day brings clouds and rain, Winter is gone and won't come again.